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Friday, October 30, 2009

First meetup

Hey readers,

Now's the season to be au-naturale! (falalalala-lalalala). Hello all, i guess now i'm back with a vengeance. To blog a proper blog post. Or should i say, an advice column (*ahem).

So what has been going on in the latest season of fall this year. Brown tones makeup, to suit the falling leaves of autumn. Yeah baby!

Looks, beauty, it is in the eye of the beholder. Do you believe it? Do tell me your views at nasuha_hamdi@hotmail.com!

Imagine 20 years down the road after marriage, when menopause hits you, and the beer belly protudes out of your belt. Looks decieve you. When your partner is balding, would you still be saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder? I'm guessing that many of you married people, must be thinking of the other's looks when you had first met them.

Let me share my experience of meeting a guy whom i do not know for the first time. "I get butterflies in my stomach, from nervousness. I don't like that feelling very much. In fact that is the feeling which makes me want to chicken out and pray hard that i do not offend the guy. I dress like i usually do, in my baggy boyish outfit. In the end, we'd always end up being good friends, because i'm like one of his buddies..." I realised that my very first intention of meeting him was wrong. i was expecting fireworks, even though i know that they probably want a demure petite girl, and i'm not what they expect. I guess it went the same vice versa?

And if i haven't mentioned, I used to be all, "ooh, isn't that guy cute", and that is what we call, superficial. But then i realised that i wouldn't be able to get any guy like that, because they won't go for girls like me. Yeah, that's right, what a pessimist! But once i got used to being a single lady, i'm starting to like my freedom, without having to please anyone but myself.

So all in all, it's just looks IS in the eye of the beholder. What i percieve to be cute isn't what other's seem to be cute. But if our intentions of becoming friends is sincere, then i guess you wouldn't have any problems making more. That is it for today! Do drop me a reply about this topic, "Looks is in the eye of the beholder", and leave me your first meeting stories.

Adios!
by Nas-sue


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